Netflix is a wonderful thing. When I first saw a preview for the movie Adam, I knew that I had to see it. The reason was not entirely centered on the fact that Hugh Dancy stars in it, either. You see, the subject matter hits close to home. One of my very closest friends has Aspergers syndrome—a very close relation. Despite the fact that they have an extremely mild case, it still makes relationships difficult. When someone can’t tell how you’re feeling, you would be surprised how strained it can make a relationship. I wish that I could thank Dancy for his exquisite work in this film. Understanding what he is portraying, I can tell you that he was phenomenal, believable, and projects hope for those who struggle with or support someone with AS. It warms my heart to see someone who obviously has worked to understand the difficulties that stand in the path of these people.
Well, back to the film. It’s a touching illustration of what life is like for those with AS—and what life is like for those who love people with AS. The hardships, the humor, and the brilliance that often lie beneath this covering are all brought to life in the characters of Adam, a young twenty-something who has just lost his father (one of the two people who really know how to handle him), and Beth, a teacher who wants to be a writer, and who is struggling with the leftovers of a failed relationship and the turmoil of her father being on trial for fraud. It isn’t your typical romance, but I think that’s what makes it so special. The struggles, the hope, the change, the growth. It’s beautiful to behold. You won’t laugh the whole time, you won’t even always wear a smile. It brought me perilously close to tears on several occasions, but I can’t think of a worthier film to say that about.*
*In other words, get out from behind the glare of your computer screen, locate a copy, and enjoy—and learn.
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